How To Get The Attention Of Your Special Someone

by Guest Blogger

Samatha Knowles



We have all heard about books, ebooks, audio programs- all showing you HOW to get a man to fall in love you with . They offer how to do it in minutes, weeks, and months. The truth is;none of these tactics really work, if they did, everyone would be flooding to Barnes and Noble for their copy and begin implementing it.

But, we do know a few things about what works. These ideas have been tested, thought through, worked through and they work- plain and simple.

Here are our top tips that really teach how to get a man to fall for you and the key as you likely will not be surprised is partnership and genuine appreciation and respect. However, we do want to give you a few tips you can bring home to - that you can implement right now. Read on for our best tips.


Communication: Getting the best relationship with your partner always begins with communication. By really sitting down and speaking with your partner, you will come a long way towards developing a deep and meaningful relationship together.


Get your timing right: To start off with, let's get rid of that common misconception that men don't want to fall in love; we do. The problem is that we just don't always want to do it at the same time women do. Age and maturity are key factors here, so if a man doesn't seem like he's out for more than just a good time, cut your losses and realize that he's just not ready for love yet. That doesn't mean forget about him completely, just keep him on the back burner and text every once in a while to say hi. You never know when he might be ready to come around. In the meantime, get out there and meet new people constantly. 


Bring out your inner cook: Now we turn from modern advice to old school: What they said about a man's stomach being the way to his heart is true. But this doesn't mean you always have to cook; there are plenty of interesting wine tastings or even beer tastings that might be fun for you to invite that guy you have your eye on to. The key here is being seen as the "cool, fun" woman who comes up with unique things to do out of the blue, but isn't expecting something afterwards. Believe me; creating a little air of intrigue about you isn't a bad thing. Leaving the guy wondering, "Why did she invite me to this and then not call me for a few weeks and then all of a sudden invite me to another thing" is good. It shows that you have your own life, something most men find attractive. 


The last point, and the most important one is be yourself. The very best way to get a special someone to love you is to love yourself. By respecting who you are, what you do, and surrounding yourself with people who care about you and your goals, you will naturally attract really wonderful men now and in the future. Get that great relationship with that special someone, but let it begin with your focus on you!